Few women get through life without experiencing a breakup or two. But even though it’s a common experience, it can be absolutely devastating, especially when a man breaks up without giving a clear reason. While every relationship is unique, the following are some of the most common reasons men fall out of love.
He Doesn’t Feel Loved
A lot of times when a man falls out of love, it’s because he doesn’t feel loved by his girlfriend. Sometimes even when a woman truly loves her man, she doesn’t express it in the ways he needs to receive it. She may hide her love behind critical words and complaints, or she may withdraw physically. While it’s natural for a couple’s sex life to die down a little after the initial romance starts to wear off, it should never disappear altogether. It’s still an important way of expressing and receiving love.
There Is Too Much Conflict
While the occasional argument can actually be good for the relationship by clearing the air, constant fighting will take its toll. Most people who tend to fight have not learned healthy strategies and they fight to hurt or to win at any cost. Harsh words said in the heat of the moment tend to linger in the mind. When a guy is hearing more negative words than positive words from his partner, he is likely to fall out of love.
He Was Never In Love To Begin With
In many cases, people mistake infatuation for love. But infatuation is a feeling of attraction and desire that only lasts until the desire is satisfied. All couples experience a similar relationship curve; the beginning of a relationship tends to be exciting, intense, and highly sexual, but after a certain point, those feelings change. When a man is truly in love, he will still want to be with his partner even after the infatuation has started to fade. But if he was never in love to begin with, he will be ready to move on.
It’s important to remember that no one falls out of love overnight. It’s a gradual process, and there are many opportunities to turn it around with kindness, attention, and intimacy.